"Conciliating" Natural Recordings by Native Speakers
The verb "conciliating" is the present participle of the verb "conciliate", which means to make people or groups of people who are opposed or at odds with each other to work together or come to an agreement, often by mediation or diplomacy. It can also mean to make something unpleasant or difficult more acceptable or tolerable.
To reconcile means to bring an end to a conflict or disagreement, usually by finding a compromise or a mutually agreeable solution.